What they mean together
Both cards carry the number three, and that's already a clue: there are three people involved. The Three of Cups is a night out with friends and the Three of Swords is the pierced heart in the rain. Together they usually point to pain that starts inside the group, like a comment that reaches the wrong ears or someone getting between a couple. They can also be read the other way around: the hurt is real, but your people are there to hold you up.
In love
A third person causing trouble, or jealousy inside the same circle of friends. If you're single, it could be falling for someone who's already with one of your friends.
Career and money
Office gossip, or a team that falls apart after a letdown. Be careful what you share in a group and who you share it with.
An example
At a birthday dinner you find out your ex is dating one of your friends, and when you get home you draw the Three of Cups and the Three of Swords. The spread names what you're feeling: the hurt comes from inside the circle, and that's why it stings twice as much. The Three of Cups reminds you that the group isn't one person, and some of your friends had nothing to do with it. It's fine to cry, and it's fine to step back for a few weeks. What won't help is turning the next get-together into a trial.
By position in the spread
In the past
You went through a letdown tied to a friendship or a group that mattered to you. Since then you've been more careful about who you let in.
In the present
There's a three-way tension that's keeping you up at night. Naming what happened is the first step to making it hurt less.
In the future
A social situation is coming where something could hurt you, or a reconciliation after a falling-out. Surround yourself with people who've proven their loyalty.
If they come up reversed
If the Three of Cups comes up reversed, the group cools off and you feel left out, or nights out go too far and end in misunderstandings. With the Three of Swords upside down, the hurt starts to heal and you can talk about what happened without your voice shaking. With both reversed, the wound is closing, though that friendship may never be quite the same.
Pick one true friend and vent to her, not to the whole group.
Frequently asked questions
Do the Three of Cups and Three of Swords mean a love triangle?
That's one of their most common readings. The two threes together point to a third person causing pain, often someone from the same circle. It isn't always cheating. Sometimes it's just interest that crosses lines.
What do they mean together in a friendship reading?
A friendship going through a rough patch because of gossip, a betrayal or something forgotten that hurt. The pair doesn't say you have to cut ties. It says you need to talk it out before the group starts taking sides.
To read them separately, here is the meaning of Three of Cups and of Three of Swords. And if they came up in a three card spread, look at the position each one landed in too.
Other combinations with these cards
- Two of Cups and Three of Swords
- Five of Cups and Three of Swords
- Three of Swords and Ten of Swords
- Three of Swords and Nine of Swords
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