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Gemini: red flags and green flags

What can go wrong with Gemini, what makes them worth it, and the side they don't show at first.

The dark side of Gemini

The dark side of Gemini is that sometimes you don't know which version of them you're talking to. Today they're excited about something they won't even remember tomorrow, and they can say one thing and its opposite with the same conviction. They're not lying to be mean: their mind just changes channels very fast.

When they get bored, they vanish. They answer in one word, change the subject or hide in their phone. And when they're nervous, they talk so they don't have to feel. Sitting with an uncomfortable emotion long enough to understand it is hard for them.

Gemini red flags

  1. Yes today, we'll see tomorrow They make plans with excitement and cancel them just as easily. Better not book anything nonrefundable.
  2. They text back late or never They read the message, get distracted and forget to answer. Then they show up like nothing happened.
  3. They dodge the question Ask them something serious and they might answer with a joke or another question. Commitment makes them nervous.
  4. They overshare They love to talk and don't always know what's okay to repeat. Think twice before trusting them with a secret.
  5. Routine bores them If the relationship gets predictable, they start looking for stimulation elsewhere. Not always in another person, but somewhere away from you.

Gemini green flags

  1. You're never bored They always have a story, an idea or a new plan. Conversations with Gemini never run out.
  2. They make you laugh Their sense of humor saves bad days. They can take the edge off almost anything.
  3. They don't tie you down They respect your space, your friends and your free time. They don't need to know where you are every hour.
  4. They roll with it If the plan changes at the last minute, Gemini is up for whatever. They don't make a big deal out of surprises.
  5. They listen with curiosity They genuinely care what you think. They ask, remember and come back with ideas you hadn't thought of.

How to get along with Gemini

Keep the conversation and variety coming, and ask for the important things in writing, with a date.

It's astrology with a sense of humor: nobody is just their sign, and every person has their own red flags and green flags.