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Virgo: red flags and green flags

What can go wrong with Virgo, what makes them worth it, and the side they don't show at first.

The dark side of Virgo

The dark side of Virgo is criticism. They notice everything, including what you do wrong, and they don't always keep quiet. They might correct how you load the dishwasher or the spelling in a love text. They mean to help, but it doesn't always sound like help.

The person they're hardest on is themselves. They demand so much of themselves that they live in a state of worry, going over everything that could go wrong. When stress gets the better of them, they turn cold, rigid and a bit fussy. Relaxing is hard when things aren't the way they should be.

Virgo red flags

  1. They correct you unprompted How you talk, how you drive, how you fold laundry. Virgo has an opinion on the best way to do it.
  2. Nothing is ever enough They set the bar very high for themselves and sometimes for you too. It's hard to feel like you got it right.
  3. They worry about everything They can turn a ten-minute delay into a drama with a thousand possible scenarios.
  4. Cold when overwhelmed Under stress they stop showing affection and focus on the to-do list. It's not a lack of love, it's overload.
  5. They can't improvise A last-minute change of plans throws off their whole day and their mood.

Virgo green flags

  1. They really help They review your resume, go with you to the doctor and help you move. They love by showing up.
  2. They notice the details They remember what you like and what you don't, and they take it into account without being asked.
  3. They keep their promises Punctual, organized and reliable. You can count on Virgo for what matters.
  4. Honest and discreet They won't tell you things that aren't true, and they won't go around sharing your business.
  5. They grow with you They like growing as a couple: talking about what isn't working and actually fixing it.

How to get along with Virgo

Thank them for what they do, even the little things, and remind them every now and then that good enough is fine.

It's astrology with a sense of humor: nobody is just their sign, and every person has their own red flags and green flags.