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Leo: red flags and green flags

What can go wrong with Leo, what makes them worth it, and the side they don't show at first.

The dark side of Leo

The dark side of Leo is pride. They take criticism terribly, even small, well-meant criticism, and apologizing is a huge struggle. If they feel undervalued, they get dramatic or take offense with a stage-worthy dignity that doesn't leave much room to talk.

They need an audience. It's not enough that you love them: they want it to show, they want to hear it and, ideally, they want it said in front of other people. When the attention drifts to someone else, they can compete for it without realizing. Deep down, it's insecurity wearing a crown.

Leo red flags

  1. They never admit a mistake Saying "I was wrong" is incredibly hard for them. They'd rather change the subject or flip the argument around.
  2. Everything revolves around them You tell them about your day and somehow end up talking about theirs. They don't mean anything by it, but it happens a lot.
  3. Drama when they feel ignored If they don't get the attention they expect, you'll find out. Sometimes with a scene, sometimes with a very theatrical silence.
  4. Jealous of the spotlight They can't stand being in the background, whether in your life or at a dinner with friends.
  5. They spend to impress They treat, give gifts and keep up appearances, even if they can't make rent afterward.

Leo green flags

  1. Huge generosity With Leo you don't have to ask. They share what they have, their time and their energy without keeping score.
  2. They make you feel special When they love you, they say it and show you off. They never hide you.
  3. They celebrate your wins They experience your successes as if they were their own. They're the first to throw the party.
  4. Loyal and protective If someone messes with you, Leo steps in. They defend their people like a lion, of course.
  5. Contagious joy They fill a room with energy. With Leo, boring plans turn into stories.

How to get along with Leo

Tell them out loud what you appreciate about them, and give criticism in private and with kindness. They listen much better that way.

It's astrology with a sense of humor: nobody is just their sign, and every person has their own red flags and green flags.