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Libra: red flags and green flags

What can go wrong with Libra, what makes them worth it, and the side they don't show at first.

The dark side of Libra

The dark side of Libra is indecision. Choosing a restaurant, a movie or what to do with their life is hard for them, and sometimes they let other people, or time, decide for them. To stay on everyone's good side, they may tell each person what they want to hear.

They hate conflict, so they avoid it even when it's needed. They swallow their anger, smile and put it off until later, until one day they blow up over something small. Image matters a lot to them too: how the relationship looks from the outside can weigh more than how it feels on the inside.

Libra red flags

  1. "I don't care, you pick" And then they don't like what you picked. Libra's indecision ends up being your responsibility.
  2. They avoid hard conversations If there's a problem, they'd rather pretend it doesn't exist than sit down and talk about it.
  3. They flirt without meaning to Their charm comes naturally and they spread it around to everyone. Sometimes it's hard to tell where the line is.
  4. They tell you what you want to hear To keep the peace, they may agree with you even when you're wrong. You won't always know what they really think.
  5. They worry about appearances How things look matters to them. They might stay in a situation that doesn't make them happy just because it looks good.

Libra green flags

  1. They hear both sides Before judging you, they want to understand your point of view. They're one of the fairest people you'll ever meet.
  2. They keep the peace They know how to calm an argument and find middle ground. With Libra, conflicts soften.
  3. Beautiful little gestures Flowers, a nicely set table, a playlist made just for you. Libra cares about the aesthetics of affection.
  4. Always kind They'll rarely disrespect you, not even when they're angry. They know how to say things politely.
  5. They introduce you to everyone They have a big social life and want you to be part of it.

How to get along with Libra

Give them two options instead of ten, and create a calm space so they feel safe saying what they really think.

It's astrology with a sense of humor: nobody is just their sign, and every person has their own red flags and green flags.